Sleep question-Hello, I have a question about

Hon, is this a newer relationship (or are you two new to sleeping together)? It sounds to me like it is.

Relax!

It takes a while to get used to sleeping with someone. At first you feel like you should cuddle, but so many of us just can't sleep that way. Honestly, snuggle up to her, spoon her, etc. when you climb into bed to make her feel loved and special, but after a few minutes just roll over and get comfy. You simply sound like you're an independent sleeper. I am, too. Drives my BF crazy sometimes but he's getting used to it now. We will cuddle for a short while and then we just roll over and get comfy and fall asleep on our own...usually we're not at all touching. Hello, I have a question about sleeping with my partner. No, I don't mean sexually, I mean just plain sleep.

Here's the situation...it's hard for me to get comfortable when sleeping with her. The only real comfortable positions I find myself liking, are with my right arm (I usually sleep on the left side, she sleeps on the right side of the bed) usually under her neck-area, just on her shoulder I believe.

Well, the problem with this is that my arm falls asleep very quickly and this is very uncomfortable and I'm thinking it may be able to cause some type of long-term damage in the long run if I keep this up. So I'm not sure what kind of position to sleep in. I've tried having my arm /under/ the pillows, but it just falls asleep quicker it seems. And by